Being an Empath: Unfolding the Higher Paradigm
In our last posting, we talked about the gift of empathy and the potential cost for using that gift if you are an empath. This posting can give you some information that might help you to live more comfortably with your gift through understanding what it is and what is expected of you by your harshest critic: yourself. Take five and enjoy
A paradigm is a way of doing things that has become adopted by a large segment of society, or societies, over time. For example, until the invention of the steam engine, horsepower and raw muscle were the paradigm for getting work done. Prior to the widespread use of the personal computer and the Internet, the postal mail was the paradigm for sending written correspondence.
A paradigm is a way of doing things that has become adopted by a large segment of society, or societies, over time. For example, until the invention of the steam engine, horsepower and raw muscle were the paradigm for getting work done. Prior to the widespread use of the personal computer and the Internet, the postal mail was the paradigm for sending written correspondence.
Imagine being able to feel and sense everything, whether positive or negative around you, 24/7. An Empath can’t turn off empathy (unlike someone who is perhaps 'empathising'). It is possibly one of the most challenging of psychic gifts to master. I am an Empath, who has spent nearly two decades, since awakening, mastering my empathic nature. It is an ongoing process. I am still not perfect and not sure that I ever will be while incarnated here. I am however content, despite the challenges of integration, as I see it as an incredible gift to humanity.
Empaths incarnate into this world without a manual. Some seem quite blessed in that they bring with them the memories of mastery from past lives. Even then, the remembering is often a difficult course in itself. To add to the confusion, most Empaths cannot tell the difference between their energy and someone else’s. Something happened on my journey where I just ‘got’ the difference. It came from increased presence. There is a subtle vibrational difference that we can discern when we are fully present. Attaining presence within spiritual evolution is a key to mastering empathic gifts that I cannot over emphasise.
Everything is energy
Everything is energy, pulsating particular vibrations. Since an Empath feels the energy, just like a living person breathes air, it is understandable why a few issues might arise as an earth-incarnated-being. Humanity (apart from perhaps indigenous cultures), is one big confusing energetic vibrational mess! The modern world is a melting pot of fractured and frantic energies. For example, loaded emotional projection; hidden agendas (whether personal or global); wi-fi, mobile phone radiation; electrical gadget emissions; multimedia marketing designed to allure and captivate; highly processed foods; TV; and the thudding din of consumerism; the list goes on and on.
Empaths will feel the energy in the field, feel the energy of the conversation, feel body language, feel words used (or not used) without intellectual interpretation. They will intuitively know what an energy is ‘really’ about despite what is communicated on the surface. They will also know what a person is saying, no matter what words are being offered.
Because of the tendency for people to hide the full story, or try to control the situation, an empath will tend to feel an inner conflict or inability to process the enormity of the engagement. One of the main problems for Empaths is the lack of transparency and honesty in the world and the consequent resentment of having to process all the energy that is not in full view. Of course lots of these sensitive beings also struggle with things that are in full view too.
"Make it go away!!!"
Most people who have this trait do not see it as a gift. I would more often expect to hear the pleading cries to make it stop. Initially, it often involves being so overwhelmed with feeling the energy that it is challenging to function in an ordinary sense. Empaths often come across as over emotional, at times others become emotionally detached to cope. It wouldn't be unusual that they might just 'freak out', without apparent cause. They often prefer their own company and don’t like to build many personal relationships.
In my early days, I used to cry out to the universe
"I don’t want to feel all this energy - it’s not mine"...
the universe would always reply that it is a gift.
“How on earth is this a gift!!!”
I often found it difficult to get close to people in a personal ‘every day’ sense. It would drive me nuts, so I would prefer independence or distance. A comfortable level of detachment and contentment with only a couple of close friends still feels very natural to me. In a way, it's a saving grace.
Powerful impetus to sort it out
The initial overwhelming intensity served a wonderful purpose for me. It evoked a powerful yearning to master my unique configuration here as an earth-being. It created the impetus for me to come to terms with my natural born empath traits and master them, eventually finding a high altitude of peace and functionality with it all.
The importance of releasing emotional attachment
Releasing emotional attachment is the main key to mastery. Most Empaths suffer because they cannot release their personal emotional attachment to feelings. If we let go of attachment, it doesn’t mean we won’t feel. It just means that we don’t get tangled in the feeling anymore. It means we can watch as things happen and discern that ‘that isn’t us’, ‘that isn’t our own feeling’ and begin to embrace when we are DIVINELY GIVEN to take action or not.
For me this involved years of becoming consciously aware and centred. Once I started coming from a centred place of presence, I began to discern what I was meant to do, releasing emotional attachment to both that which is not for me and that which was. This is a very powerful factor as it means that we can still feel the energy empathically, but it doesn’t bother us adversely any more. We can act in infinitely more divine service when we are not attached emotionally. In fact unless we come from this place, we would tend to make a situation worse not better. That’s the bottom line. It means we feel the energy with the deepest compassion, yet we can truly hold the space for another. In so doing, we reflect the light of benevolence, allowing healing to take place.
Finding inner peace and stability
Daily centering, meditation practice, yoga, compassionate eating, conscious lifestyle, conscious choices that cleanse our energy field and promote centredness will all help big time! Being in nature serves to recentre and recharge depleted energies. Spending regular time in solitude away from idle chatter and drama can be invaluable. I would say that making sure that a bare minimum of half an hour per day consciously looking after yourself is crucial. The more the better. The above are very important. There may also be many other ways, such as swimming in the ocean, hill walking, having a bath with oils or salt, giving yourself a foot massage, listening to your favourite music, playing an instrument, conscious bodywork or massage... basically whatever it is that helps you maintain balance and build up your sense of inner peace and stability.
Another important key is ownership. If you have the trait, then to deny it just makes it worse and ensures that our spiritual evolution is dysfunctional. Our evolution will happen when we embrace our unique configuration. So we need to be 100% honest with ourselves and know that it will get much easier the more and more present with become with it. The only way out is through.
Without these practices it is very difficult (I am not sure if it is even possible) to master being an empath here. So if the motivation is a little lacking, JUST DO IT anyway until you find a rhythm to your daily life that you see working.
A true gift of benevolence
So whether you are an empath or you know one personally, hopefully this is helpful in some way.
I truly believe that, the challenges as highlighted are there to help us refine and alchemically transform this true gift of benevolence. The gifts of empathy have the power to really make a difference in this world. This is what most people who feel the call of Divine Service long for, to be able to help others in a life changing way.
An evolved Empath has the natural ability to connect on a Soul level, helping to release blocked energy with another. An Empath, if given, can also release coagulated energy within the field at large, discerning between what is benevolent and what is not.
Whether an Empath not, if we can all work together with our gifts we can allow this higher paradigm of to unfold together.
EMPATHY
✿ ڰۣ❤In Loving Light from the Fairy Lady❤ڰۣ✿
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